Usually when we do things, we are attached with constrains and decisions to make. It is always a neither here or there. Though pulling hair may release some frustration for some, but it does not help in the problem solving.
So is comes down to what is your main agenda for all the work you are putting into. But often my views are different from yours and that is why conflicts happen. Even if I understood your views, it does not make my problems and constrains go away. Why are people so blinded with their own views that they do not see what others are going through? What may seem a nothing to you could be a hell of a problem to me.
Quoted from an article i read Put Yourself In Other People's Shoes
We are quick to judge other people through their actions. That's normal, and it comes with our membership in the society of humans.
When a driver cuts and overtakes us in the highway, we think he's of subnormal intelligence and wish he'd end up in a crash. When a pedestrian brushes our side as she passes by, we curse her with names for private body parts. When politicians speak of views we disagree with, we tell them to go to that fiery place of everlasting torment for the damned.
Our gut reaction is to condemn others who don't conform to our values and norms. We stay away from people who do things differently because not only are they "weird," they're also altogether wrong, or seriously misguided. We are quick to say they should do as we do or suffer the consequences.
Well... what if people coming to me saying that they understand yet they still kept their index finger straight between my eyes. Adding oil to fire? I can only say that all they understood was NOTHING. I am not saying that I the right one, but pointing all the problem at me only shows their ignorance to what had happened only.
Sometimes I think if I am the breed that does not cannot say what my heart thinks. I will answer when people ask me a shady area. But if they choose to judge me first and want me to clear myself later, I do not think I will ever do that. I am not a vocal person and I usually do not answer people their question fully. Since you already judged me, I do not think I have the ability to correct anything you had judged on me.
Should I feel hurt? I do not know.
Well... I would like to thank Jasmine and Jerlene again for all the help they provided in making ML's present. Nothing would have happened without the two of you.
NAME: Miyuki the simple boi DOB: A January Capricorn Baby BLOG DOB: 17th November 2004 LOCATION: The forgotten palace INTEREST: simple stuff HOBBIES: Plastic Model Making, Mahjong w/o stakes Fav Tv show: Mtv Channel, Pimp my ride!!!, Survivor Guatemala!, Da Chang Jin OCCUPATION: FT student, PT lier Fav Quote: Efficiency is intelligent laziness! MSN: asuka76@hotmail.com Friendster: asuka76@hotmail.com Mood:
